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SHELO- A person who knows how to be happy though may be sad. I am a woman, a mother, a daughter. I am loving and caring. I have shattered dreams but I have hope.I have a God who arranges everything for me. I may not have a desirable past, but no one can destroy me and I am still standing. All I want is to be accepted and loved for who I am cause that is Me and That is all I can be.

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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

What would you do?

Okay let's talk about friends cheating on you or girlfriends being interested also in every guy you are with. If this situation comes what would you do? How would you react and how will you deal with that friend?

The idea came when my bestfriend Emy who is currently in the UK posted a bulletin regarding this situation. That's totally annoying and I would really be pissed off if that happens to me. So here goes her bulletin:

Ok, i have a big problem with my english friend! Recently, ive started dating this guy that i REALLY like and he really likes me.Both in love now actually.
But today, my boyfriend came to meet me like he usually does, and we were in the middle of a conversation and my friend just came over and clinged on to him, bare in mind now we were like holding hands.
And i just sort of laughed it off, but then she was like, will you come with me to find my coat? (To My boyfriend) And he was like i want to spend time with (My Name). Soo Then she started like leaning on him and stroking his arm and that!
I was so shocked! .. because she's like flat out flirting, right in front of me!
Now this is crossing the line, so what can i do to tell her to back off?
Thanks For Your anwsers.
Much Love x
The nerve of that friend. Oh well, we have different personalities so I cannot point out what she is up to. I gave my friend this advice.

How about you. I trust many of you are expert on handling cheating situations or that kind. Would you give me a piece of your thought? Thanks.


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Monday, March 30, 2009


I miss you so much. I miss the old familiar face, your voice, your smiles, and everything that we used to share. I hate missing you cause it's a very cold feeling. I know I could not turn back time and I guess I have to learn to be contented in dreaming.

Last night I have dreamed of you. You were so real. My heart missed a beat. You were there in a strange place. I even saw your mama and you were wearing a white sweat shirt. Your face wore the same sweet smile that I used to love and still love. Your eyes spoke of love unfathomed, and your lips were still the same that captivated me. I smelled your cologne, the same cologne that i love to smell whenever you cuddled me. I wept as I felt a surging emotion, feeling of loneliness being filled. You murmured my name with arms wide open. I ran to you with all my love and wished to God that this moment would last forever.

But 'twas only a dream. I opened my eyes, there was nothing but deep silence and loneliness even more heightened. The painful reality sat in. I only see and feel you in my dreams. I guess I have to live my life in a dreamworld for the rest of my days.


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Sunday, March 29, 2009

Green Thumb Sunday: Lovely Aloran

I participated in this cool meme, created for gardeners or gardener wanna-be's, house plant enthusiasts, and nature lovers. All you need to do to participate is post a picture on Sunday of a plant in your yard or that you are growing, a landscape or nature scene. Cool right? Since I love Nature and want to care for nature count me in.

My First Entry would be a simple yet lovely picture of my hometown Aloran, Misamis Occidental. The picture tells us the major product of our town. We grow coconuts in almost all farm lands. Coconut growing is the major livelihood of the farmers in the town. I just love my place and I find this picture serene and greeny.

If you want to join the Green Thumb Sunday just as I did, just click here. Have a Happy Green Thumb Sunday.


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Saturday, March 28, 2009


Here's a Tag that I would proudly start to pass on. The idea came when I posted a B&W photograph in my other blog and Riza , a fellow blogger commented on it that it would be nice to pass it on as a tag.

So here it is. I call this Tag CAPTURED...

} Start Copy

" A good Snapshot stops a moment from running away."

When you photograph people in colour you photograph their clothes. But when you photograph people in B&W, you photograph their souls! ~Ted Grant

} End of Copy

The photograph itself doesn’t interest me. I only want to capture a minute part of reality. I just want to froze one of the sweetest smiles of my daughter. She's not getting any younger and one day she will leave me and be with her own family. All photographs are there to remind us of what we forget.

Now, Here is the rule in doing the Tag:

Copy the quotes above from start copy to end Copy.
Replace the Photograph with your own or your loves ones' Black and White captured moments that you want to cherish for the rest of your life.

Passing this tag on to the following person who I know would love to capture moments through photographs: Phebie, Laine, Tammy, Rosemary, anne, Bill, Femikey , Twinks, Maxi, Carlota, Rosa, Claire, Rose, Budiawan, Lynn, Cil, Badet, Maya, Shirgie, Bingkay, Mommy Jenny, Chris, Emj, Utah Mommy, Weng, Adie, and Riza.

The tag is open also to my blog visitors who wants to share captured memomies. Feel free to grab it and pass it along.


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Friday, March 27, 2009

Sears Presents Busted Moms

Motherhood is the highest profession on earth which the only salary is pure love. We mothers take care of our children divinely, anticipate their wants and hold them with comfort as much as we can. It is not easy being a mom. It is even harder right now. In the present economic crisis that most countries are facing today, more and more moms lost hope for a comfortable living. Several members of the workforce are out of job making them broke. Great thing that Sears is here to give hope to busted moms. The fantastic deal is, Sears is offering 75-80% OFF ORIGINAL PRICES ON FALL & WINTER APPAREL and other clothing for you and the whole family from now till 18th of April. This is totally awesome! It would really help a lot. Having only 4 descent tops because of tight budget? Check out now on their amazing offers. I just spotted a LL and J Cool Stars short sleeve Tee for only $7.99 bucks. Hurry!

Sears in support for Busted Moms presents a cool contest where lucky winner mommy will win a totally awesome package. The package includes: $1500 worth of Sears Apparel, $250 SPA treatment at your local SPA, $250 for Hair and Makeup, and $500 cash for fun! Wow, this is more than a random act of kindness! Sears has really recognized the value of the mothers who make the world go round.

How To Enter:

There are two ways to enter. To enter:

  1. Place an text, photo or video update on why you deserve a Mommy Makeover from Sears on the Facebook page of Sears Presents Busted Moms.
  2. Use Twitter to tweet why you deserve a Mommy Makeover from Sears. You must include the following in your tweet: 1) Sears@bustedmoms and 2)
The Contest begins at 12:01 p.m. Eastern Standard Time (“EST”) on March 26, 2009 and ends at 11:59 p.m. EST on April 18, 2009 (the “Contest Period”)

So what are you waiting for? It is a chance of a lifetime that we moms have to grab. Open your Facebook account, be a fan of BustedMoms , share your story on how the economy has left you busted and why you deserve to win the Mommy Make0ver from Sears. Enter twice by twitter also. Just follow @bustedmoms and simply tweet why you deserve to win.

Lastly, I want to commend my gratitude to Sears for recognizing us moms worldwide who forget our own luxury in exchange for the comfort of our children. Motherhood indeed is the highest profession on earth as we are not only raising children, we are raising future leaders of the nation. As Busted Moms would say, " Moms Rule !"

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Mommy Moment- Beach Invasion

mommy moments

I just joined the MommyMoments initiated by a great mommy , Chris. I was inspired by the postings of my blogger friends and cousin who also participated in this. I think it's cool to capture moments with your children. Your children will not stay young forever. With the ticking of the clock is another time added to their age. It is great then to save moments to cherish.

This time MommyMoments' topic is summertime. Oh yeah moments with children during summer. Beaches, outings and anything fun under the sun..

Posting here some beach moments with my kids..

This was taken last year. I still have not seen my boys this year. They are on the province and I miss them a lot. Great that I have captured moments with them.

To join with us and share memories with your angels just click here.

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Thursday, March 26, 2009

Twitter Contest!!!

Hey friends, wanna Win a Casio Camera ? This is just an absolutely interesting contest!!! This a Twitter Competition to launch Murray's Green Affiliate Marketing blog and to promote green online marketing.

How to join? Well see the easy contest mechanics below. But first you have to Join Twitter if you're still not.. So easy to register, I promise.

Here goes the mechanics:

According to the contest's host:

1. Follow @murraynewlands
2. Twitter this tweet:

“Please follow @murraynewlands @carbonadvicegrp @heatherinbc @Xshot, RT 2 Win”

3. Twitter Competition Closes 28th March 2009 at 3 pm GMT.
4. I will choose one winner at random
5. I am the judge of this competition, my decision is final and I may change the Twitter Competition rules.
6. No purchase necessary to win.
7. US $100 may be substituted in place of the camera prize.

Casio EX-Z8O Camera


Xshot Camera Extender


Isn't that just great? Give it your best Shot buddies!!!!


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Link Post , Anyone?

Cheers Bloggers!!!

I know most of us are so persistent on our online endeavors to find rewards to all the efforts we've put through by blogging. Well, I got great news for you. I recently found out a great way for you to get paid to blog . I was captured by the post of my cousin about The one main reason that got me interested is the fact that this new online platform caters bloggers and advertisers in a very plausible way. Bloggers earn money for making paid reviews, while advertisers get quality backlinks by being advertised on blogs.
I'm pretty sure you will be interested too. Here's the deal, once you registered with the site, you will receive an email confirmation like this:

Dear Bloggers,
Thank you for your registration. We have received your request. We usually review and approve new registrations within 24 hours, or can be longer than it.

After approval advertising tasks will be assigned to you in the days and weeks ahead. Please check your email frequently to see if any new advertising offers have been made to you.

Got my point? Their service is fantastic. Once you're confirmed and accepted by them, tasks will flood in through the email. You never have to remember site's username and password. You'll get the job via email. But the thing is you have to check your email regularly and be proactive on it. The quicker you respond to the task, the more job will be assigned to you. That is totally great!

So , why hold still? Don't think twice. Act on it now. Go and register at . Be you an advertiser or a blogger , I'm 101% sure that you will benefit out of it. Guaranteed quality service is offered!


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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Testing, testing for Your Heart

The Heart is one of the most important organs in your body as it pumps blood and oxygen into the your system to make you alive and kicking. It is therefore wise for us to monitor our heart's condition in order to avoid risks and care for it. You no doubt already know what you should do in order to prevent heart disease: exercise, don't smoke, eat a healthy diet rich in vegetables and low in fat. However, still many die of coronary heart disease. This calls for us to be aggressive enough to watch out and control risk factors to prevent the number one killer of our world today. One thing there is engage yourself in healthy lifestyle, self-discipline and submit yourself to tests and screenings in order to foresee and be warned of the measures of the disease.

I listed below the most common tests health professionals use to tract our heart's health, plus an interpretation of the result by a certain Sharonne Hayes, M.D. Blood-pressure and cholesterol screenings are the most typical tests. The other tests are done when results are murky or when one is on the high-risk group.

test what it measures what the results mean


The force of blood againsts the

Anything over a normal reading

artery wall. High-blood pressure (120/80) increases your risks for

makes it harder for the heart to heart attack and stroke

pump blood and oxygen to the



Body fat (especially abdominal fat),

A BMI outside the normal range of
FERENCE, AND which correlates with heart-disease 18.5 to 24.9 raises your heart-
disease risk, as does a waist larger

than 35 inches or a waist as big or

bigger than your hips.
Levels of lipids found in the blood-

Ideally, total cholesterol should be

stream, including total cholesterol, 200 mg per deciliter (mg/dL) or less;

HDL (good cholesterol), LDL (bad HDL, over 50 mg/dL; LDL, 100mg/dL

cholesterol) and triglycerides, another or less; triglycerides, less than 150

type of fat in the blood mg/dL.


The amount of sugar (glucose) in the

Your normal fasting plasma glucose
GLUCOSE blood should be under 100mg/dL, which

indicates that your body is effectively

controlling blood sugar levels.


Blood flow to the heart, which can

Doctor monitors your heart rate and

indicate abnormalities such as blood- blood pressure, ECG Patterns,

flow blockages and arrhythmias. symptoms, and how long you are

able to exercise on a threadmill to

determine your risk.


Calcium deposits in the arteries, a

A Calcium artery calcification (CAC)
CALCIFICATION ONLY sign or coronary artery disease. score greater than zero indicates

plaque in the arteries.


A protein that signals inflammation in

A high CRP level (above 3 mg per liter)
C-REACTIVE PROTEIN the body. is associated with an increased risk

for cardiovascular problems.


Levels of type of cholesterol similar to

An unhealthy Lp(a) level is 30mg/dL or

LDL; high levels of Lp(a) correlate higher.

with atherosclerosis (hardening and

narrowing of the arteries).
An amino acid in the blood.

Anything over 15 micromoles per

liter indicates an increased risk of

heart disease.

Our heart is very important as I have said. It is just right to monitor our risk factors. With the above we could be helped in determining where our heart lies. Remember your heart is YOU. Even seemingly healthy women can have heart problems, which are often hard to detect. That 's why it is essential to get the recommended tests-even if you feel fine-and protect your heart if you want to live longer. LOVE YOUR HEART!!! LOVE YOUR LIFE!!!

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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Kids' Choice Awards


Hey are your kids into Nickelodeons? Well mine are. I am even into it. I love the shows there. My little girl memorizes all time slots of her favorite cartoon shows in that channel. From the time she wakes up till the time I arrive home from work, the TV is fixed on Nickelodeons. If you and your kids are into the channel then it's also wise for you to participate Nickelodeons' Kids' Choice Awards or the KCAs. This is an annual awards show which is held live between the late date of March or the first week of April. This year it will be on March 28 at 8PM. It is one of the biggest awards show which give honors to the year's hip and biggest TV show, movie, musical acts , favorite book and etc. as nominated and voted by the patronizers of the Nickelodeon channel.

It's will be a great event then. I'm so excited of who will be the winners. My kids voted already for their fave TV show. I also voted for myself. Since I am a fan of the Twilight Saga, I voted for Twilight for the favorite book category. Please help Twilight win. Just click on the widget above to vote for it. Well, Twilight truly enthralled me. I was carried away by the Saga into a world of love and passion by some Vampire hunk. It deserves to win then. 4 days and 9 hours left for you to cast your choice and vote for your favorite nominees. Good luck to all Nickelodeans and good luck to your bets.



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Get Rid of Pop-ups and Pop-underads

If you have read my previous post, I was ranting there that my site is warned by entrecard because of some nuisance pop-ups and pop-underads. I really freaked out as I don't want my account to be deleted from entrecard. I noticed too well about the pop-ups everytime I opened my site. There will be emerging windows of some online games "travian" and some other windows that I immediately closed whenever it showed up. Little did I know that it annoyed my visitors as sometimes it will get them 10 minutes fighting over those horrible exploding ads before getting over my main page. Well, Entrecard hates pop-up thus I was warned.

Thanks heavens for a fellow blogger who has a big heart and extended his help over this issue. I want to commend my gratitude to Dave Lucas who left messages over my tagboard and send some links about the issue of pop-ups. Through his advise I found out that the suspect is . I have read this blog article which he has suggested me to read. The writer experienced the same problem as mine and pointed out the same suspect. Another related article about pop-up and pop-underads supposed again the same suspicion on as the ultimate source.

For those who have no idea what are pop-ups and pop-underads, here's a little explanation of what are these.

By Wikipedia:
Pop-up ads or pop-ups are a form of online advertising on the World Wide Web intended to attract web traffic or capture email addresses. It works when certain web sites open a new web browser window to display advertisements. The pop-up window containing an advertisement is usually generated by JavaScript, but can be generated by other means as well.

A variation on the pop-up window is the pop-under advertisement, which opens a new browser window hidden under the active window. Pop-unders do not interrupt the user immediately and are not seen until the covering window is closed, making it more difficult to determine which web site opened them.

I suspect then that is not the only which runs hidden ads which might caught us unaware making our sites annoying and unfriendly to our visitors. Be careful then with widgets installed to your sites. You wouldn't want your site to be disturbing to you and to your web-visitors. Moreover, you don't want your site to be banned from communities like the Entrecard.

I have removed my widget. I hope the pop-ups will be gone. I am sad why such sites run hidden ads which could be annoying and alarming to you as a blogger. So if you have the same problem , check if have in your blog to rank your Google PR, alexa or technorati, just remove it to make your blog more visitor friendly and pop-ups free and if pop-ups still come check the other widgets you have placed in your blog.

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Monday, March 23, 2009

Help me remove Pop-up ads !!!

"You have 72 hours to remove the pop-up advertisements from your blog before it is deleted from Entrecard. "

Oh my God!!! The above hit me when I opened my entrecard account this morning. What am I to do? A fellow blogger friend Budiawan, told me that weeks before that I have a pop-up ads when he opened my site. I noticed that too. He advised me that Entrecard doesn't like pop-ups. Honestly , i don't know how it came about. I have not even the slightest idea how my site is running those ads. What makes me frantic now is that I want those ads be removed.. But the biggest problem is I don't know how. I don't even have the knowledge why it's there on the first place. Can you help me?

Do you have any idea how can I remove those sickening pop-ups? I don't wanna be deleted from entrecard. Please extend your help and it will be appreciated. Thanks


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Meme: Share!

I was invited via Tagboard by a fellow blogger Dave Lucas . I found it interesting and since I am fond of memes, I decided to spread what he has started..

"What is a Meme?" - it's some kind of list of questions that you saw somewhere else and you decided to answer the questions. Then someone else sees them and does them and so on and so on...

According to Dave:

This one was passed along via Facebook friend and fellow-blogger Geoffrey Philp!

I'm spreading it around in different ways, via blog, email and Cbox! YOU are welcome to participate!

Geoffrrey says "It's harder than you think!! Here is what you are supposed to do...copy and paste into your own note, type in your ONE WORD answers and tag a bunch of people - including me..." OKAY, let's do it!

Where is your cell phone............ here in my desk lying prettily..
Your father......................... deceased
Your favorite thing................. my watch
Your dream last night............... dreamed of vague images and figures..
Your favorite drink................. Iced Tea
Your dream/goal..................... to be his everything..
The room you are in.................I'm in my four-walled cubicle and surrounded by stockpiles of documents
Your fear........................... worms and total darkness
Where do you want to be in 6 years.. I want to be somewhere else outside the country
Muffin.............................. nothing right now..
One of your wish list items......... new laptop (pink)
Where you grew up................... Aloran, Misamis Occidental
The last thing you did.............. sent rates to Arpin International for US Embassy Moves
What are you wearing................ uniform
Your TV............................. 25 inches flat
Your pets........................... doggie
Your computer....................... desktop
Your life........................... is a highway
Your mood........................... bored
Missing someone..................... yes super dooper mega missing someone!!!
Your car............................ dont have my own
Favorite store...................... SM
Your summer......................... hot summer/ beach and Baguio
Your favorite color................. pink, baby blue
When is the last time you laughed... last night
Last time you cried................. recently
Person who emails me................ agents, clients, and crown offices
Favorite foods...................... Seafoods, Chinese foods
Place I would rather be right now... where he is there..
Person I think will respond......... friends and fellow bloggers..

Now , I am passing this meme to my blogger friends like: Phebie, rosemarie, Tammy, femikey, Laine, Twinks, Carlota, rosa, Rose, Budiawan, Shirgie, Maya, Lynn, Anne, and to all those who wanna grab this.. Feel free to grab and share!!!


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Friday, March 20, 2009

"My Cluttered Handwriting" Tag

Three people tagged me this fun taggie.. I got this from: Tammy, Laine and Love.. Obviously I have to display my unorganized hand-writing skills.. hehe

Here are the rules of the game:

1. Write down who tagged you in white paper and your answers in
numbers 2 and 3 Take a photo of it and upload the photo in your blog to show us how your handwriting looks like.

2. Answer these:
-your name / username / pseudo
-right-handed or left-handed?
-your favorite letters to write?
-your least favorite letters to write?
- Write “The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog.”

3. Tag five persons.

Showing you what I've got!!!

And since most of my friends are already tagged with this , I will tag those who haven't done this:

1. Shirgie
2. Carlota
3. Maya
4. Twinks
5. Lynn

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