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Monday, November 9, 2009

No Pointing Fingers

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.


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3 comments:

Arvin U. de la Peña said...

forgive and forget that you ha

niko said...

ay i love this..

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Mom of Four said...

I love this one and it's very true. Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes and we all have shortcoming. Criticizing your wife or husband in front of other people will lead to misunderstanding, lose of respect and separation. There are things that need to be done at the comofrt of your home. Other people don't need to know what's going on betwee your personal life.