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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Couple's Corner: Kiss and Make UP!


Rodliz’s Nest

This is obviously a late post for Couple's Corner as it is already Thursday today. Pardon me guys, my adrenaline is just at the lowest during these days. It's only weeks to go before the BIG DAY: My Baby's Day Out from my tummy!! You can imagine our body being so tired nearing the due date. But still, I would feel bad if I can't write anything here about KISS AND MAKE UP!

Something that is great between couples strongly bound in love is that for all that went wrong between us, we can always say " Let's kiss and make Up Honey". As I have said, every one of us has flaws that can lead to misunderstandings . However, we are not called to dwell into those kind of situations. We should always have time to forget past enmities, worries of yesterdays , tiffs and misunderstandings and revive the vibes that we couples shared. A brother once said, "never let the sun go down without resolving the feud between couple as that feud would become war and would result to utter destruction and division of the oneness."

I totally agree with that statement. Though I am the kind of person who never surrenders during the heat of the battle, I also always raise first the peace treaty when the stillness and quietness of the day has arrived. LOL. No matter how mad was I with my hubby because of a certain argument, I easily cool down. You know what's my secret? I just call on the name of the Lord Jesus. " OH LORD JESUS" I just keep on repeating it, till my anger cools down. Wow, the name of the Lord is truly a name above all name. It works magic on me.

Now, the kiss and make up would begin. He usually would be under the blanket pretending to sleep and I would tickle him and go under the blanket to open his eyes till we would end up laughing and laughing. My daughter would join us ending up into a big laugh wrestle making our bed so crumpled and untidy. You see, I could sleep better when it happens. If there were times, we wont say a word till we sleep it ended up being aloof in the morning. That is the reason why I always make it a point to resolve what has caused the enmity between us the soonest.

Making mistakes and having some misunderstandings is inevitable. But once you see your mistake and admit it to one another and forgive each other we would grow stronger and be reminded to take a better look at that side on the next time. Saying sorry plays an important role in a peaceful co-existence. Saying sorry does not lower your self-respect , rather it bridges the barrier between couple which resulted after a fight. While doing so, do not bring up old issues or do not refer to the mistakes of your partner. You are here to accept your mistakes and not to criticize. Give him/her an opportunity to vent his/her feelings, hurt as well as anger. Be patient and only after he/she is through, give your side in a lower tone so you would understand each other. Proper communication and not jumping to each others own opinion helps. Remember, once we get married we vowed to one mind, one speaking, and one heart. Therefore the old "I" must be done with and live your marriage life as one.

More so, place God as the anchor or the center of your relationship. Nothing could go wrong for those who continually seek the Lord's guidance. Love each other truly with the unconditional love of Christ, say "I Love you" a thousand times and most importantly say " Sorry" when you have to.

Enjoy more of Kiss and Make up stories at Couple's Corner at Rodliz Nest.

End note: I am nearing my due date , if I won't be able to join on the coming topics , please bear with me!! Thank you.

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8 comments:

teJan said...

weee! wow! congratulations sis! Happy trip nya sa baby;)

Verywell said dear, makaluha sad ko gamay sa imo entry..hehe! When God is the center of our relationships..everything will be just fine!

Godbless!

eds said...

wow ang cute nman ng kiss and make up hehehe.. kung sana ako eh meron ng chikiting ganyan din cguro kami hayz.. thanks for sharing sis! and good luck sa iyong delivery

Mom of Four said...

Ay ang ganda naman ng iyong entry. Aba at ikaw ang nangingiliti sa kanya ha. Pero alam mo, tama ka, di maganda yung sabay kayong mainit ang ulo, kaso maarte rin ako minsan eh, kapag medyo nagtatampo siya sa akin, at inaamo ko at pakipot siya, nagagalit na ako lalo, ahahaha..baligtad na, mamaya ako na ang susuyuin niya.

Understanding is inevitable sabi mo nga, it can make our relationship stronger, dun natin masusukat kung gano ang tolerance natin sa isa't isa, but it needs to get settled before the son goes down eka mo nga. Mahirap din ang buhay may asawa, di laging langit di ba, pero kung ang mag asawa eh marunong tumanggap ng pagkakamali, wala naman sanang problema.

Good luck sa baby ha..I hope everything turns out alright.

Seiko said...

I like your style before you completely burst it out,calling the name of Jesus is really like magic at all.And saying you're sorry fr the things you've done is really important to once every couples & & relationships.Kami naman it wont take so long pag nag karoon ng misunderstanding between us for we easily forgive & forget kaya siguro tumagal kami ng ganito hehe.

Seiko said...

I like your style before you completely burst it out,calling the name of Jesus is really like magic at all.And saying you're sorry fr the things you've done is really important to once every couples & & relationships.Kami naman it wont take so long pag nag karoon ng misunderstanding between us for we easily forgive & forget kaya siguro tumagal kami ng ganito hehe.

Clarissa said...

My husband and I sometimes fight over little things na pwede namang di pag-awayan but I can't let him sleep at the bed without saying to him that I'm sorry---you're right,it really plays an important role for peace making.

hoisstt!!Praying for your safe delivery!!Balitaan mo kami kaagad dito sa ere ha!!^_^Congratulations!!

shydub said...

Ang ganda naman ng marriage nyo sis. Ako, i can't make peace in one day, tagal kasi mawala galit ko tapos husband ko wa care din hehe. pero sana ganyan din kami.

Pray for your safe and easy delivery sis. take care.

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